Episode #108: Overcoming Betrayal

Overcoming Betrayal with Kerri Lewis

When the very people you trusted the most were the ones who betrayed you, who can you trust?

Kerri Lewis shares her profound journey from a tumultuous childhood and many betrayals to a path of empowerment and love. Growing up in a household overshadowed by conflict, Kerri learned to make herself invisible to dodge her parents’ unhappiness. Her story takes a dramatic turn when, at 19, she marries to escape her troubled past, only to confront the grim reality of her husband’s alcohol addiction. With remarkable courage, Kerri ultimately chose her own well-being over a toxic relationship, making the heart-wrenching decision to cut ties with her parents after uncovering that she was involved in her father’s deceitful financial actions.

Kerri’s second husband betrayed her completely when she discovered a suitcase of papers, revealing that his true identity, was not the person she had married and was living with for five years. Her story is not only about overcoming adversity but also about the unexpected twists life can throw our way. 

Key Takeaways from Overcoming Betrayal with Kerri Lewis

Overcoming Childhood Trauma

Kerri shares her painful experience of growing up in a household filled with conflict and emotional turmoil. Her parents’ unhappy marriage and her own struggle to be seen led her to find solace in isolation. This childhood shaped her sense of survival and resilience.

The Impact of Her First Marriage

At 19, Kerri married with the hope of escaping her childhood struggles. However, her first marriage quickly deteriorated due to her husband’s alcoholism. Kerri’s determination to make the relationship work for the sake of her daughter was tested time and again until she finally reached a breaking point.

The Shocking Betrayal of Her Father

Kerri reveals the emotional devastation when she discovered that her father had stolen from her, using her name to open credit cards and rack up debt. This betrayal, coupled with her family’s dysfunction, pushed Kerri to make the difficult decision to cut ties with her parents for good.

The Power of Cutting Toxic Ties

Kerri discusses how breaking away from her toxic family dynamics allowed her to heal and gain the strength to move forward. She reflects on how her daughter’s support during this time reinforced her resolve to prioritize her own well-being.

Rediscovering Love and Trust

After her second divorce, Kerri was determined to focus on herself and her business. But, through a surprising twist of fate, she reconnected with her childhood friend on Classmates.com. This unexpected reconnection led to a loving, trusting relationship that healed her heart and gave her a second chance at love.

Lessons Learned: Resilience, Healing and Growth

Through her experiences, Kerri has learned that no matter the hardship, we have the ability to rise above it. She emphasizes the power of resilience and personal growth, and how even the most difficult challenges can lead to a better version of ourselves. Kerri encourages listeners to trust in their ability to heal and move forward, no matter how tough life gets.

It’s Never Too Late

Kerri’s final message is one of hope and inspiration: it is never too late to start over, to find love, or to embrace your purpose. She urges women to keep moving forward, even when grief or life’s obstacles seem overwhelming. No matter the age or circumstances, there is always an opportunity for growth and new beginnings.

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrilewiscoaching/

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